Looking back over my blog, I’m realizing how helpful it is to have the ability to tell when certain things happened. I’m having to document my medical history again (this time for a rheumatologist) and I can actually give dates. Otherwise it would look like “a little while back I hurt very badly and it lasted for a… while.”
Reading back, I get reminded about stuff like “wow, that was THIS year? I don’t remember that at all!”
One thing that has really stood out is that I’ve forgotten my personal policy of looking at the blessings instead of the wishes. Wishing doesn’t make anything worse but my own mindset – I’m a happier person when I focus on the end result and the blessings that come from getting there. I don’t do so well with goals. It seems like setting a goal is the quickest way for me to either instantly succeed (so I don’t have to pay attention to it anymore) or to rebel against doing it (so I don’t have to pay attention to it. )
I know my personality and I’ve always been this way. I’m better at doing than trying. (Thank you, Yoda.) I have yet to find a motivational idea that works more than once for me. A paper chain where I tore off a link every 1k words worked for NaNo in 2006. It never worked again. Writing prompts work for about a week – I can’t make it through an entire month of prompts. Book lists work until I encounter a book that I’d have to consume massive amounts of alcohol to read. 365 days to a goal books never work to make me read the Bible in a year, clean up clutter, stay inspired, make art, etc… By January 5th, I’ve read the whole book and thought “what if I think July 12th is a good idea but March 2nd is crap.”
So, I’m blessed to know my own personality. I’m blessed to have a blog that lasted for more than a few weeks. I’m blessed to have access to medical care and I’m blessed to be able to bitch about it when I get mad and then am able to find DIFFERENT medical care if I need to.
Today I have a lot of sewing to do, so I’m thinking it’s going to be a watch TV on that computer monitor while watching the internet on this monitor and leaning back with my sewing stuff. I have a ton of pictures to download and edit but I can do that later. Today, I need to accomplish something. Trying doesn’t make my brain happy – accomplishment does.