Following up from part 1, where I probably scared most people into hitting the back button on the first point, here are 5 more points dedicated to unraveling my mental logjam. I kinda feel sorry for the other 4 points that are forced to share a virtual canvas with point #1. They don’t get nearly as much attention because their older sister is louder and more controversial.
I promise to be more tame than point #1. If you couldn’t tell, that’s my most loaded reason and I had to get it out there. So, hey, if you’re still with me then you’re a pretty cool dude and I think I love you. Srsly.
6. I don’t like unconsciously rebel against the idea of “spiritual authority”
I have a spiritual authority. Really, I do. I picked him out all by myself at the Spiritual Authority store right next to Sports Authority at the Mall. His name is Jesus and his last name is Christ and if you’re not Jesus Christ then you are not my spiritual authority.
I have no idea where churches got this stupid idea from that there are people who are “authorities” and we have to submit to them. Can we say abuse of position and abuse of power? Hey, you want to get together on Saturday? No, I can’t, my spiritual authority said I had to wash her car. Or even worse… “It’s ok if I touch you there, God put me in charge of you.”
It’s like some super-natural parent where not only do you not get to pick who your “authority” is, you must blindly follow in their “classes” regardless of their education or ability to actually maintain some respect.
People who are not my spiritual authority:
1. My husband (he’s my spiritual PARTNER)
2. The pastor
3. The youth group leader
4. The small group leader
People who have legitimate claims to be my spiritual authority:
1. Jesus & his cohorts in the trinity
2. My mom
3. My dad
7. Churches should be better at therapy than potlucks
“I’ll pray for you” and potato salad have never been enough to get me through an issue. C’mon people, aren’t you kinda trained to help people? No… oh, my mistake.
But seriously – why aren’t you? Why aren’t churches hosting training classes for people to be effective human beings in the world? By that, I don’t mean “how to save the masses” or any of that evangelical stuff – I mean “recognizing domestic abuse,” “becoming a court appointed advocate for children in the court systems,” “parenting special needs children.” You know, stuff that actually has a practical difference in the lives of the people around us. If our life is made up of our sphere of influence, then why aren’t we making the sphere a better one?
Hey people up there in the pews! Us people down here in the trenches need help with ministry not evangelizing! You know – ministering to people. Church should be in the streets, not inside a building.
8. There is a thought in the church that people with chronic illnesses must not be good enough Christians
No one is going to plain out say it, but if you have a chronic illness and you don’t get miraculously healed at the prayer meeting – then shut up about the illness. This is not the case, apparently, for the older church members who have eaten themselves into a triple bypass.
If you have a chronic illness, you are a whiner, complainer, negative, bringing folks down, and basically ruining the illusion that church is a happy place where people eat and get healthy and rich and happy.
That leads right into #9:
9. Prosperity Theology
How to be good stewards of God’s money and still own that Cadillac. (really?) I can’t even get myself to type out why I think this is ridiculous. This will sum it up.
10. There’s a point when even the flies are tired of your honeypot
I’m tired of water sweetened with honey and vinegar slipped to you while you’re not paying attention. Let’s be like Paul and ask for some meat on those ole Christian bones.
The world we live in is one of information overload – the slogans of the 80s aren’t going to get through. Give us some information! Original content! Something thoughtful and heartfelt! Something that hasn’t been through the corporate spinner and market testing. Can’t we just get a little truth?